Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Heartfelt Wisdom on Love

Are you having a glitch in your love life?  Are you feeling a little down? Sometimes it is helpful to review some affirmations on love. Remain healthy by maintaining a simple diet of pure feelings, good wishes and positive thoughts.   Your emotional and physical health must come first.  Replace negative thoughts and feelings with images of beauty.  Cleanse your heart, mind, body and soul. Embrace your loneliness.  Most importantly, be patient; love will come again, and soon enough you will experience the complete fullfillment of love between a man and a woman.



Finding You 

Life can be hard and lonely, this is true, 
Until someone like me, finds someone like you. 

We found each other amid gold laced dreams
and shimmering hopes stitched with silver seams.

A love made of jewels plucked from the evening sky
adorns this universe with the gleam from your eye.

Together we are everything I dreamed we could be
I am so glad I found you and you found me. 

Throughout my years, wishing to find, 
Happiness, Joy and Piece of mind, 

Although we are apart, in miles and in space, 
Nothing can stop us, in the whole human race. 

Together we'll be happy, I know this is so, 
For the two of us have found each other, and we'll never let go. 

So for now this is as much as I can say
My love for you grows with each passing day.


Written by Yolanda Pacheco Garcia
From the Book Lost and Found: Love, a book of love poems
Purchase through www.victoryp.com


Saturday, May 15, 2010

My Friends

Friends come and go, through the seasons
and for different reasons.   However, when I make a friend they are always in my heart regardless of whether or not I am still in theirs.  I value my friends and hope that they will remember me with a smile.  For all who have touched my life: 


You are on my list...


I have a list of folks I know ...
all written in a book,
And every now and then ...
I go and take a look.
That is when I realize these names ...
they are a part,
not only of the book they're written in ...
but taken from the heart.
Although you're not aware ...
of any special link, just knowing you,
has shaped my life ...
more than you could think.
So please don't think my greeting ...
as just a mere routine,
your name was not ...
forgotten in between.
   
For when I send a greeting ...
that is addressed to you,
it is because you're on the list ...
of folks I'm indebted to.
So whether I have known you ...
for many days or few,
in some ways you have a part ...
in shaping things I do.
I am but a total ...
of many folks I've met,
you are a friend I would prefer ...
never to forget.

From the book Lost and Found: Love
by Yolanda Pacheco Garcia
To get your copy go to:
www.victoryp.com

Monday, May 10, 2010

Feel Better My Friend


An Offering From the Bottom of My….

A little girl was in church with her mother when she started feeling ill. "Mommy," she said, "can we leave now?"

"No," her mother replied.

"Well, I think I have to throw up!" exclaimed the girl.

"Then go out the front door and around to the back of the church and throw up behind a bush," said her mother.

After about sixty seconds, the little girl returned to her seat. "Did you throw up?" her mother asked.

"Yes," the little girl replied.

"How could you have gone all the way to the back of the church and returned so quickly?" her mother asked.

"I didn't have to go out of the church, Mommy. They have a box next to the front door that says, 'For the Sick.'"

Feel Better Soon


I heard from a bird
that you were not well
so I made you a basket
to make you feel swell.

I put it together with loving care
it was easy and fun
for me to prepare.

“Stuffy and tired,” says your body?
Well, what you need is
a delicious Hot Toddy!

This is one thing that you should not share
So I am happy to help with your health care.

Feel Better Soon!


©Yolanda Pacheco Garcia

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

The Party


The Party
©Written by Yolanda Pacheco Garcia

The senses are excited when they start to feel
The tongue on this texture, has much appeal.
Savory flavor what a delight!
I could devour this all thru the night!

The music is playing inside of my head,
and then I decide to lick instead.
It is nice and rich and very strong,
a little too salty, WAIT,
the flavor is wrong!

This one is a little too thick
if I dont stop eating 
I will get sick!

Nacho Yummy Tortilla Chips!

Tragon, is a research company that pays me to go eat.  A group of people test taste various flavors of a new product and respond to different questions about it.  I always get inspired when I go there!  It is fun!

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Weight Loss Tips - Birthday Dinner


 I sought out the most knowledgeable registered dietitians (RDs) in the country for their very best advice. Based on their expertise and their experience with thousands of clients, they gave us some savvy and surprising advice:
Eat only when you have these three things: table, plate, chair. When you eat from a plate while seated at a table, you’re more mindful and will naturally eat less and feel more satisfied. That means avoid eating while standing at the fridge, lounging on the couch, or driving in the car!”
-Dawn Jackson Blatner, RD, author of The Flexitarian Diet

Never say never. Instead of cutting out indulgent favorites completely, try a more balanced, livable plan. I look at foods as ‘usually,’ ‘sometimes’ and ‘rarely’. There is no such thing as ‘never’. If you fill your day with vegetables, fruit, whole grains, lean proteins, and low-fat dairy, a little cheese or a piece of chocolate won’t derail you.”   Think BALANCED.
-Ellie Krieger, RD, author of So Easy: Luscious Healthy Recipes for Every Meal of the Week and host of Food Network's "Healthy Appetite"

Think before your drink. The number of calories in cocktails can really add up during nights on the town. Choose simple drinks such as one part vodka and three parts club soda and add a splash of juice--grapefruit, orange or cranberry--for flavor.
-Carolyn O'Neil, MS, RD, co-author of The Dish on Eating Healthy and Being Fabulous!

Mindlessness and multitasking while eating can trip you up, especially if trying to manage weight. Think of food as nutrition, fuel, and something pleasurable. If it's food time, then really make it food time, even just for 10 minutes. Pause and examine what you're eating. Savor every bite. Eat Slowly!
-D. Milton Stokes, MPH, RD, Connecticut-based nutrition counselor and co-author of Flat Belly Diet for Men

You’ve heard this a zillion times, but that’s because it’s really necessary: Start your day with breakfast. You can't run a car without gas, and you can't run your body without food!”
-Keri M. Gans, MS, RD, CDN, nutrition consultant, speaker, and author of the upcoming The Small Change Diet

Treat snacks like mini meals. Combine protein-packed foods (hard-cooked eggs, low-fat cottage cheese and yogurt, and hummus) with complex carbohydrates, including whole-grain crackers, bread, fruits, and veggies, to feel fuller for longer between meals.”
-Elizabeth M. Ward, MS, RD, author of Expect the Best, Your Guide to Healthy Eating Before, During, & After Pregnancy

Go ‘nuts’ at the beginning of the day to save calories in the end. A study showed that women who included a handful of almonds a day, as part of a calorie-controlled diet, lost more weight and kept it off longer than those who didn’t. Researchers think that almonds, possibly due to their fiber, satisfying crunch and healthy fats, increase the satiety hormone cholecystokinin, which helps keep you feeling full longer.”   Also, great for diabetics.
-David Grotto, RD, LDN, author of 101 Optimal Life Foods

Swap spaghetti with spaghetti squash. Cup for cup you'll save 180 calories and boost your intake of potassium, which fights water retention and high blood pressure, as well as vitamin A, a major anti-ager and immune booster.”                  (Or when you just have to have some,  swap regular for whole wheat!)
-Cynthia Sass, MPH, RD, co-author The Ultimate Diet Log

Reconnect with your inner voice telling you to stop when you are satisfied and eat when you are hungry. Too often we eat when the clock says it’s time, and we stop when the oversized plate in front of us is empty.”
-Tara Gidus, MS, RD, CSSD, LD/N, The "Diet Diva" on TV’s The Daily Buzz


Birthday Dinner
written by Yolanda Pacheco Garcia


The food was delicious

Italian’s the best

so rich and different

from all of the rest.

The wine was sweet,

and my chocolate cake,

was decadent to eat.

My friends are fun.

The chat inspiring,

But you my dear

are most exciting!

The diet?
The diet?

Let's exercise!

Tomorrow is a new day!

From the book Awakening Love 
by Yolanda Pacheco Garcia
www.victoryp.com


Saturday, April 24, 2010

What to say? Did I Forget To Mention?


Heart-to-heart conversations with your date should not include gossiping about neighbors or other people.  Instead make it meaningful and talk about:
1. Embarrassing moments. If you can't share the awkward, "American Pie"-worthy moments that occurred throughout high school with your partner, who can you tell them to? Don't be afraid to broach the subject, if you haven't already. We wouldn't be surprised if their stories are more horrifying than yours.
2. Political viewpoints. How do you feel about the new healthcare bill? You don't have to agree with each other, but you do need to keep an open mind. A good relationship allows both parties to discuss their own philosophies without taking the opposition personally.
3. Fears and insecurities. By fears, we don't mean your phobia of earthworms. We're talking about things that make you wake up with gray hairs. What worries you? What do you want to improve in yourself? What skeletons are in your closet? In being vulnerable, you risk judgment, but more importantly, you chance being understood.
4. Childhood. Ask your partner what he or she was like as a kid. Did she make friends easily? What kind of games did he like to play? Did he have trouble in school? Childhood memories make for fun conversations, but they can also lend insight into how your main squeeze became the person he or she is today.
5. Past relationships. This is a touchy one because no one wants to hear the person they're with spouting sonnets about an ex. There is, of course, a difference between longing for (or being bitter over) the past and simply acknowledging what happened. With enough practice, seasoned, happy couples learn how to address why past relationships ended without inadvertently comparing their current partner to an old flame.
6. Family life. Knowing a person's upbringing and relationship with his or her parents is paramount to understanding his current attitude toward family. If you're even slightly contemplating a future with this person, it might help to ask how well they get along with their parents. Why does she resent her mother? Why is he closer to his sisters than to his brothers? How does she handle family gatherings?
7. Current events. Thanks to the overflow of information, it's nearly impossible to stay up-to-date on everything going on around us. Here's where teamwork comes into play: Ask your partner about his interests, be they economics or regional politics, and see if you can't learn a thing or two. Who knows, maybe you'll help him develop an interest in international affairs or science news.
8. TV and movies. Compared to politics and personal fears, entertainment might seem pretty shallow, but discussions about movies can fall into the "deep" category if you focus on character motivations and plots rather than on, say, the cute leading actors.
9. The future. Talking about the future can be nerve-wracking. While we're not saying you should pressure your partner into talking about plans for marriage and children, we do believe that you should know their dreams, goals, and aspirations. What is he working toward? What drives her to succeed? Where does he see himself in five years? Someone who desires growth and is not afraid of the unknown is surely dynamic enough to deserve you.

Did I Forget to Mention?

Written by Yolanda Pacheco Garcia



Did I forget to mention
just how special you are.
The light that you emit 
lights up my evening star.

Did I forget to mention
how important you make me feel.
I am here smiling, 
about a feeling that is so real.

Did I forget to mention
many times, when I was sad, 
you made me smile a bit.
In fact, you made me glad.

Did I forget to mention
how much you mean to me.
Well, my dear friend,
I hope that you can see

Today I am telling you.
I love you.

From "Lost and Found: Love, a book of love poems"

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Have You Hugged Today?

According to Intelligence Researcher, Jay Gordon, M.D, co-author of Brighter Baby, studies show that children who get some SUSTAINED form of touching, such as a LONG HUG EVERYDAY are SMARTER.  "the more physical contact a little one gets, the more the brain cells are stimulated, creating stronger, faster brain synapses and boosting IQ."

Various experiments have shown that touch can
* make us feel better about ourselves & our surroundings
* have positive effect in a child's development & IQ
*  cause measurable physiological changes in the touchers and the touched

Hugging is a very special therapeutic touch that contributes in a major way to healing and health.


Hugging accomplishes many things:
~feels good
~despels loneliness
~overcomes fear
~opens doors to feelings
~builds self-esteem (wow, he/she is hugging ME?)
~fosters altuism 
(I can't believe it but I actually want to hug that old son-of a-gun)
~slows down aging
~helps curb appetite
~eases tension
~fights insomnia
~keeps arms and shoulder muscles in condition
~provides stretch exercise if your short 
~provides stooping exercise if you are tall
~offers a wholesome alternative to promiscuity
~safe alternative to alcohol (better hugs than drugs!)
~is democratic (anyone is eligible for a hug)
~energy efficient (saves heat)
~is portable, requires no special equipment
~no special setting
~imparts feeling of belonging
~makes happy days happier
(from K. Keating "Hug Therapy")

Hugs are recognizes as essential for healing.  Touch is used to help relieve pain and depression and anxiety, to bolster a patient's will to live, and help premature babies in an incubator.
Hugging is a wonderful tonic.  Medical evidence is that a hug makes your body produce more Oxytocin, which is the "feel good" hormone.  Research found that one 20-second hug a day makes a big difference between how happy and relaxed we are.

"I understand it takes about twelve hugs a day for us to perform at our peak." -Leo Buscalia, PhD author, educator and lecturer on the art of loving.



A Hug!

                 
A hug is a wonderful gift to share; 
to show each other that we care.
There is so much a hug can do,
When you feel those arms, holding you.

It is a place to feel safe and warm;
comfort for a sad heart that is torn.
An expression of the love in our heart,
for ones who we wish, never to be apart.

A greeting when we meet to say hello,
or to say goodbye when we have to go.
It can hold us up when life gets us down,
and make us smile, instead of frown.

A hug can be given for no reason at all,
and given to those, both big and small.
We're never too old to feel the joy it brings,
it is one of life's, most pleasing things.

And for all of this happiness, a hug is free;
costs nothing, yet means so much to me.
We should all hug another to show we care,
for to feel a warm hug, nothing can compare.


©Yolanda Pacheco Garcia
from "Awakening Love"
www.victoryp.com